A Personal Perspective....

Perspective is that defines end picture for seeker. So if someone perceive some behaviour or phenomena about something or someone that may have influenced by his personality, may be mirrored by experiences he took during his tenant on the earth, people he met, books he read. we may doubt and say those findings may not be equally applicable for others. In some way scientific mind does argue the findings or realizations of universal phenomena does get applicable for every one but again it was applicable even before we did define that in some symbolic formats, laws of gravity, magnetism, week and strong forces always do exists in nature since beginning of everything. We may not know when inception happened but when ever it was there was certainty on those things, who knows how well we had formulated it might be the case we haven't encounter the failures situations. we might be just discovering or re-discovering again and again, yea who knows how many civilizations, religions had evolved and reached its extremity and eventually vanished.  How many solar systems, galaxies, universes has formed and exploded already.

what we think we know very well may be an illusion created around by self driven rules emerged from personal understanding and by observing from our senses, off course usually we continue do believe till finding comfortable explaining unknowns. Perhaps its illusion everywhere in everything we know. People who had got little better understanding than others did created or initiated some kind of practices to make society better than forest, gradually those practices spread and turned into culture, civilizations off course there must have been constant evolution in everything. We humans have achieved highest level of understanding among other creatures. we have created numerous religions with precise details which satisfy most of believers, sometimes does over satisfies and followers become enemy for those who disagree. Seems no religion, practices could be able to satisfy a soul who unfortunately fortunate to have such level of understanding to question the existence. Not even scientific practices which does more precise observations of surroundings would be able to explain ever, and doesn't help removing scepticism even if it does explains with all logical sequence of events with high level of certainty in repeatability. From other perspective there is no reason to reject any mean of seeking the unknowns whether it is some religious practice or some scientific equations, ultimately the truth is that we don't know what it is. And it should be understood that any way to explain it could be merely speculation. Good thing is that there is curiosity among us to know the unknowns slowly it will lead to better understanding.

what really matter's how we have spent time.

This night I was one TV show, this show is about match maker along with question-answer contest. This was not one man show there has to be minimum two member team.
Two mates in one team, one is answering questions which brought up by the host and the other one will go into a room to pick up various goods  provided by the TV station. But only after her partner completes answering the question and within very limited time, like 30 seconds. The choosen goods by mate should resembles to the answer and they are not allowed to communicate by words during the rounds. The rule of continuing in the game is that in any round either,

1. answer is correct and chosen goods is also correct,
2. only answer is correct,
3. only chosen goods is correct,

This way it puts equal dependency one who is answering by words and other partner who is choosing goods, so its fun with some added value of goods but requires good co-ordination.

The first team two women, both looks Chinese were colleague for 1 years. They blame each other in every round because they both did not perform well, they could manage to go through the first 2 rounds with pretty tough steps, when it came to the third round, they failed to continue further on the game. So these two women left the stage, and they gained nothing.

The second team was a couples, no matter whose mistake during the games they just comfort each other visually and by words between rounds saying she/he is the best. They also did failed to continue in the game beyond four rounds. Encouragement plays a magnificent role in the life.

Here if we think on the time spent by both teams in the game was almost same, but second team has given a better message they have spent better time during this. what is the point spending time unhappily.

summer of 1997........

In the summer of 1997, i got chance to visit kolkata. I strongly attached with this city as most of people in my family are settled in kolkata, my father completed his study in this city, hence my visit would definitely going to be memorable. The first thing i noticed when i entered is that girls are of good figure. It may be climate which help them to be hot. Well that time i was not very sincere, otherwise i would have a girlfriend from there ( graphs are sour).

Anyway finally got chance to finish post after many years.. thanks to blog spot keeping drafts more than 5 years..
Life has been changed a lot since college days when I started writing post. Now it seems I am completely different person.. Umm.. biologically its true as in every 7 years every single tissue gets died and replaced by new one.. but I was talking about psychologically also I am different person.

Leaving behind the crap lets focus on what this post about, Now I don't think details matter but Kolkata we went for some secrete reason of black magic, now I do not believe in magic as its all about doing tricks using scientific advancements or making mazes of illusion.
My mom does believes that time that father is influenced by some black magic which can only be cured by another black magic.. blah blah blah.... then only father will get rid of some stupid Muslim women's living in neighbour hood.

so she took of her children got excuse of going home town to visit her mom and dad and father was already in mood to kick us out for at least couple of month to enjoy honeymoon. For me its was nonsense even that time I never believed anything like black or white magic will help but she was innocent women born and raised in a typical Indian village and never saw school, all her understanding of society was from hearing from her mom's stories or other women she could have interacted in here life span. what ever she could do she did tried one or other way. I respect and love her for her determination. I believe a fully educated woman will not suffer the amount of torture she faced in her life span, but that's typical Indian woman who is not safe in society without a man. some way old marriages were stable but that too because society was not safe for free woman or divorced woman. We Indian men have created bad society for women, but its okay no one to blame its evolution took place that way, and happy to witness and be the part of change happing in India.

So somehow mom managed to ask her brother to leave her to Kolkata and then finally we made it to go to house of younger brother of grand father. Finally after few months of following saints and mullas finally something happen or she believed it. Not that time but now I could only make out that father become unhealthy of not having proper food and pleaded to come all of us. First of for her it was unlikely to get such request and second she was following saints so there was no other reason for her to believe in or think anything beyond.

For me turned out to study same class again as I was away for more than 6 months and there was no good reason to promote me to next class. Neither parents do not had understanding and motivation to fight against school head's decision of not promoting.

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Random thoughts

a random morning me with friend just walked out together for office,. it was little unusual to go out together side by side but that is not the concern. I found newspaper lying on floor, I did picked up the news paper. Found some beauty cream advertisement on the front page, usually here in Singapore we never subscribed for news paper, guess here news paper are delivered for free of cost may be reason for putting advertisement on front page.

after looking at the advertisement my first mild reaction was like why the hell they need fairness cream, most of the ladies look fair enough here in Singapore, I understand there are different cosmetic products for different group of ladies but this one was related to fairness that was the reason it looked odd to me at first glance and even the lady face profile on front page doesn't seems there is any more possibility to make it more white.

Leaving all the details behind my friends reaction on my comment was the reason that made me write this blog post, don't know from which part of his head he pulled out a random thought and saying me people try to look white like American people because USA people are most successful,. I was like what the fuck!! how he can relate this to USA people's prosperity with the action of human very basic desire to look fair and white. people living in remote areas also do wash their faces and few apply cosmetic cream to look fair. Some people in remote areas never know there is a country named USA but still they do try to look as fair as they could there are lots of factors for human to look white and I believe those are more personal than some countries prosperity. May be he thinks this way because his personal desires might be relating him this way. After giving example of remote poor people actions to wash face and try to look clean, on this he tried to give chaos theory example, we never know an action could be indirectly affected by another action that might happen several years ago on completely unrelated location, blah blah blah.. some time its better to realize that arguing can not be alsways the best way to resolve conflicts.